Friends or girlfriend? She using me?

Whats more important? my gf tells me how much she loves me and that she wants to be with me forever. anyways, i let her borrow my car yesterday because she was going out with her friends but its gotten to the point where she spends way more time with her friends than me…she took my car last night and said that today she was gonna spend some time with me, just me and her, and its 4:45 pm and she’s still with her friends. is this relationship worth it? ….what can i say to her to make her spend some more time with me?

Your girlfriend from the sounds of other posts seems to be using you. That being said she may not know that shes using you. Her friends are always going to be an important part of life. It’s that way with most girls. They love their friends to death and they prefer to spend time with them.

Now being that it’s only 5 pm she may have just gotten caught up in girl talk. Never know, sit down and talk to her. If you don’t say anything how is she going to know how you feel?

Besides once you talk to her you kinda bring her using into the light and you can see how she reacts. But best advice to get her to spend more time with her is to talk to her.

Explain things to her and hopefully things will get easier. Never know. Personally I know you asked if she was using you later on in your post I don’t really thing she is purposely using you.