Did he mean it? Getting back together!

My boyfriend of 10 months and I broke up today, he told me we needed to figure out our issues (Since we fight all the time) he promised me we would get back together when we figured it out. He said he wanted us to hang out every now and then, and that he still loved me. He also gave me a kiss, saying he wouldn’t kiss anybody he’d broken up with, if he didn’t play on getting together with them. He said he wouldn’t date anybody and that he didn’t want me to either. He said he knew there was somebody better than him out there, but he didn’t want me to find them, because he wanted me again. I than left, he gave me a hug.. told he loved me. I called him later, and told him I was sorry for crying up a storm when he broke up with me… and he laughed and said I didn’t need to say Sorry. I asked him if he wanted his clothes back that I had of his, and he said ” No, we’re going to get back together… hold onto them until then.” He was also extremely flirty with me, and sang the song “Forever, Amen” by Travis Tritt to me. He doesn’t often sing to me, and than I had to go. So I said bye (Wondering if he would say he loved me again) and he went “FINE!” in his joking tone. So than he said he loved me, I said it back and we hung up. I talked to his friend online earlier, and he told me he was sorry.. I asked if Mike*my boyfriend* was sad… and his friend said Mike said that he was a little sad. My question is… did he mean what he said… About us getting back together from all he did and said and singing and what not… or was he lying so he didn’t have to deal with the crying… Hoping that if he said it… I would be stronger?

This is something I have done and said before, and not meant. Granted from everything he says I honestly believe that he truly does want to get your relationship healthier and back to where it is meant to be.

He seems very set on it; I never ever added so much detail and insurance of things being repair when I lied and trust me when I did it I sold it pretty damn well. Which yes is a bad thing but that’s where my help comes in.

But you really need to sit down with him soon and work out your issues. You can’t let these issues sit idle, they won’t get any better and it will only get worst the longer it sits.

As I said I really think he truly does love you, just don’t let things sit to longer things may go wrong… If you have any questions feel free to contact me.