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How to nicely shut him down…
Whenever I go to this guys house Jake he is always trying to do stuff I always say no and move his hands or him in general but he never stops and my best friend likes him but I cant get him to listen to me and stop putting his hands on me. I don’t have a problem saying no to him because IV known him for so long but I do for other guys unless it goes past kissing
I always feel bad saying no but I do respect myself and won’t do anything too physical with someone I don’t want to
My two questions are
How do I get Jake to stop because I am his friend but I don’t want to be anymore then that and I don’t know what to do to actually make him listen? Iv tried everything by telling him no, stop, it won’t ever happen because I don’t like him like that, and moving but he always starts it again
And I hate saying no so how do I do it so I don’t make myself feel like a bitch (because I always do when I let someone down) and still being friends with the person
Being firm with Jake is really the only way you’ll get him to stop. You may need to sit down with him and explain things out. Saying that your sorry but your just not interested in him but if you do become interested you will let him know. But also work your friend liking him into it if you must, saying something like I can’t do that to so and so. I’d be a terrible friend. But be firm and decisive when you speak.
The other thing is you shouldn’t feel like a bitch at all. It’s your own body and it’s best that you respect your body and your personal wishes. Most girls and guys let those slide, it takes more effort to keep them than to loose them to say the least so good job on holding up against it. You aren’t a bitch for being selective and protective of yourself. So really you should try o change your mind set about it.
Pregnant… My Boyfriend get arrested? he’s 18!
So I’ve quite a few questions….
First off let me explain.. I seriously, honestly, think I am pregnant. I know, I know, you’re probably thinking, “oh no, not another thread about this”
But, really. I’m mature about this and I need help…So anyways, here are the symptoms I am having..
My stomach is getting bigger, at the looks of it, by the week. Like three weeks ago my stomach was seriously almost as good as flat.Anyways, my stomach always hurts now, I always feel as if I’m going to puke. I eat things I WOULD NEVER eat. I am ALWAYS hungry. But the only problem is… I lost a little pounds. I used to weigh 106lbs, then i lost two pounds. I looked this up and it said weight lost was a symptom….. But my stomach is getting bigger.
My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years now. I haven’t told him yet. But he has been asking why I get so sick. Anyways. Here comes the part about telling my mother. I asked her a couple days ago if it was going to be okay to keep dating my boyfriend because he just turned eighteen. And this is exactly what she said, “You need to be on b/c because is you come home pregnant I will turn him into the police.”
Can she REALLY do this? Because I heard that if I was willing to do this, then the authorities can’t do anything about this. So please give me some pointers. It would be much appreciated!
Best advice for you is to take a pregnancy test, better yet take two or three if your really worried to confirm because yes the home pregnancy tests can be invalid so if your extremely worried you can take a few different tests to compare results.
As you said your self you are showing a lot of the key signs of being pregnant which it sounds like you are prepared to handle. So once you know if your really pregnant or not the next step would be tell your boyfriend and I think having your boyfriend come with you to tell your mom would be smart. It shows you both plan to take on this responsibility together.
Now your mother may or may not be right. You are 17 on your profile, so odds are she can’t do anything to him. The age of consensual sex is 16 in the large majority of states. Your boyfriend is 18 and again most of the states depending on where you live have a law thats been nicknamed the “Romeo and Juliet” law. Which allows someone under 18 sleep with someone over 18 as long as they are with in 24 months apart.
Now best advice is search your stats statutory rape laws in your state. As far as I know that would be the only thing he could be charged with but, if your mother considers charging him in the off chance that he is able to be charge you need to make sure she realizes what she is doing and explain your side.
Best place to explain yourself and tell her how important he is to you and explain how he is the father of your child and you need him by your side to help you get through this is in a counselors office. They will be able to help clarify things and make it easier for both your mother and yourself.
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