15 years old; never been kissed

I am a 15 year old Girl, btw. freshman. I’m cute, not going to lie. Alright body, outgoing, flirty, fun, hangout with uh ‘popular’ crowd perhaps and I am the only one out of all my friends whose never been kissed. Never had a bf. Nobody would ever guess, either. I don’t know why but the perfect opportunity never has presented itself. Ugh its frustrating and I’m beginning to think its never going to happen and when I do end up kissing a guy I will definitely not be a good kisser since it will be my 1st and, at this age, probably his 100th. ugh! Should I just hookup with some random guy or wait till i’m in a relationship or what??? any advice or thoughts?

First off your 15, don’t worry about kissing a guy. Something I have learned is just to let things happen. Or as my girlfriend and I prefer to say “perfect timing”. Basically means don’t rush things; it’s going to happen when it does. It’s not a bad thing as a matter of fact when you met the right guy who will be your first kiss it’ll likely be a good thing. Most guys will enjoy a chance to teach you how to kiss. Just follow their lead and you’ll be fine.

On a side note if your interested in a guy who has kissed 100 girls you may want to rethink things a little. You shouldn’t waste your first kiss and possible first boyfriend on a loser.

Move in with 25 year old bf or stay at home…i am 17

Okay basically, I don’t know what to do
I’m about to be 18 in 3 months
lately everything has been going nuts
with my parents, schooling and such.
I have a boyfriend who I’ve been with for 4 months
yes, thats a short amount of time, but I love him and I don’t use that word often.
He’s 25 and has a 19 months old baby
no its not mine, but his real mother was never in his life.
she ditched
so for the last 4 months
I’ve kinda taken on the 19 months old baby
because I’d go and stay with my boyfriend every weekend.
no, my parents do not know about either one of them.
and I’m scared for them too know.
I want to move out of my parents house and start my own life.
but I’m scared, I mean at heart I’m still a kid, but trying things as an adult.
but I’m getting treated bad at home by my parents and I’m sick of getting hurt.
I don’t know whether or not to move out
or suck it up until I’m 18.
and the guy I’m with is really pressuring me to move in with him.
because he wants a family and he’s sick of being alone.
I don’t know what to do.

please don’t judge the situation or me, I just need the help.

I know you don’t want people to judge the situation or yourself, which is a bit hard to do if your asking advice. Anyways… you are turning 18 in 3 months, in reality it’s not that long. My best advice is wait those 3 months, things may work out with your parents. I don’t think you really want the emotional tension of just walking out on your family.

You are 18 now you likely have another 50 years of your life dealing with them and I am sure somewhere along those lines you will want them to be there and support you. The other thing it does is it doubles your length of a relationship with your boyfriend. Making your parents willing to respect you wishes to move out more so than they would if you just left now.

But on a side note if your scared of your parents finding out about him and his child your likely not ready to move in with him. Also if he is pressuring you into moving in you may want to tell him to wait just to see his reaction because it does seem suspicious.