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Personally, I don’t think it’s love.
Sorry in advance about the longness.
So there’s a girl i know. She was in the year above me at school, but we never really spoke. But a few months ago, we got back in touch, and we really hit it off. Now we talk more or less all the time. I’m always there for her, no matter what (I’ve helped her through some pretty tough and stressful times)
Our relationship is kinda complicated. She knows that i really like her (More than a friend. I’d never usually risk a strong friendship for a relationship that might not work, but i really want to be with her), and as far as i know, she really likes me. This surely means i’ve done something right, because she doesn’t like guys very easily (She hates most of them. Past relationship problem caused this). At the moment, she’s thinking about whether she could risk our friendship for a relationship. As far as i know, she’s probably already thought about it, but not let me know yet. All i know is, i really want to be with her.
I’ve not been attached to a girl for a long time, and i’ve never been attached in THIS way before. It’s like all i think about is her. Every waking minute, i’ll be thinking about her. When i’m at work, i’ll be wondering what she’s doing or how she is. All i want to do is see her. I saw her on Sunday for most of the day. We had a great day out. As soon as she went home, i missed her like crazy.
Like i said, i don’t believe it’s love. But….i don’t know. I could be mistaken. Could anyone shed a little light?
Sorry about the essay. I just need someone who knows what they’re talking about.
Hey, no worries on the length honestly i think it wasn’t all that long. Anyways Obviously you care about her a lot. From the sounds of what you wrote your very smart, and i think you’ve already made the choice. You said it your self, your willing to risk your friendship for her. That says a lot, regardless of what you may think.
While you may really care about her, loves not found in one day or a few days. As a matter of fact i personally don’t believe love ever is fully grown and completely found. It evolves as the relationship does and when you find the right person it keeps changing and makes the relationship stronger.
You never know it could be what may become love, or it may be that you just care. Though if you never test it out to find out, will you ever know for sure? I highly doubt it and as you said it’s been a long time since you got attached to a girl so it may mean a lot more than your giving it credit.
Best advice, do what you feel is the best, if your heart and your mind agree it’s almost never wrong.
Being Isolated at home help!
Hey guys,
I could use some advice on being home all the time… Since I started babysitting my younger sister some years ago I’d of course have to stay home for hours on end, this was all year and including the summer. So about a year or two later i was still stuck watching her and not being able to hang out and do things with friends and stuff. By this time, being at home all the time was really getting to me and sometimes when i do get the chance to do other things i turn it down and i don’t know why i do it. But all the while for some reason being home makes me happy.
So then high school rolls around and we all know we wanna have the best time of our lives while in high school and im still stuck babysitting, with some rare occasions of freedom. Freshman year ends, then comes sophomore year, then my junior year and im doing the same routine. Now its my senior year and i feel like I’ve done nothing to accomplish a good time…I will, however, keep in touch with long time friends when I graduate and go to college.
**(Sorry if this is long, just need to vent this out)I’m not sure if anyone has this same problem, since I was always home, or babysitting and doing the same thing everyday. I don’t know what to do, a part of me says get out of this before you end up staying with your parents until you’re 40 and regret the great times you could’ve had in the past, and another part of me is saying change is bad, do what makes you happy.
What im trying to say is enough is enough I need to do something with myself, being isolated and at home is unhealthy.
Hello,
First off before I responded to your question, let me apologize to my readers for not posting a lot lately. I have been dealing with a nightmare on the side with one of my companies, hopefully things have settled down and ill be able to maintain the blog a little better than I have been as of late.
Anyways back to your problem, I have been there my self. I have been isolated to my house due to numerous reasons, not exactly like your reasons but nonetheless I also have the same problem. I tend to want to stay in as well.
It seems as you have answered your own question. You realize it’s not a healthy and you see the fact you need to change. I recommend you keep thinking like that, it’s always a good thing to be positive.
High school isn’t done yet so enjoy what you have left. And take advantage of any and all chances you have to get out and enjoy life. I personally disagree though; I think collage is the best time of your life.
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