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My girlfriend and masturbation…
My girlfriend and I are christians. She doesn’t know I masturbate but I know it’s becoming something I shouldn’t do. It’s not right from a Christian POV and I know it but it’s something that is very difficult to stop. All the time I say “this is going to be the last time” or something like that, but I don’t follow through with it.
She doesn’t know I masturbate but is it something I should stop doing since I am Christian? I mean, she obviously doesn’t want sex until marriage and I have no problem at all with it so is it kind of childish to be doing this when she doesn’t want sex and since we both are trying to live Christian lives? She wouldn’t like it if she found out I’m doing this.
This is something which i find very commonly asked and i am not exactly sure why. Anyways, to start off there is nothing in the bible that says masturbation is off limits to Christians. The one major thing i recall and had sources tell me was to avoid sex till marriage. Odds are that your girlfriend will or has masturbated herself, of course that depends on how old she is. As she gets older the more likely she is to have.
The truth is that masturbation is normal for teenagers who are learning about and experiencing puberty, regardless of gender. And there’s nothing wrong with it as long as it doesn’t become something you get addictive to. Also i don’t see how it could be considered childish, as it’s perfectly normal and it has nothing to do with your girlfriend.
I have to earn it? Sex? Playing with her…
My girl won’t let me do anything besides kissing/hugging. we’ve been together for a month tomorrow, and whenever i touch her ass/boobs she gets pissed and tells me that i have to earn it. i asked her what she wants me to do to earn it, and she says that i have to show her that i’m ready for her. wtf does this mean? btw, i have always been a gentleman around her, and i told her i am willing to wait as long as she wants for sex, but if i cant even touch her ass, how am i supposed to stay with her?
Wow… Yet again I try to avoid these kinds of posts but this one just irritates me so much I had to write a response back for this one.
First off it’s up to your girlfriend to decide when she trusts you enough. There very well could be a deep reason for her not letting you touch her. One such very well be rape, sexual assault and or just bad experience with a past boyfriend. Another point is that you’ve only dated for 1 month, for goodness shakes. I will tell you that I waited 6 or 7 months till my girlfriend was comfortable.
Another point is that your only 15! If I am correct in the majority of the states in the united states if you are messing around with her odds are it’s illegal.
If you’d really break up with this girl that you say you “love” for not getting to “touch her ass/boobs” than you need to just break up with her now because what you are feeling isn’t love. She needs to be treated as a human not a play toy.
I am sorry but people who think their partner is just a play toy or is just their for their enjoyment are very self centered and don’t deserve their partner.
So to my loyal readers I am sorry for this rant / bitch fit but I think it was well needed.
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