SHES TAKING ADVANTAGE OF ME! HELP!

Ok I have this friend who I’m roommates with and the problem is she uses everything that’s mines and not just borrowing it like using my hair spray then getting her own
she uses it every fucking day her + me using it means that my shit will be gone allot sooner.

I’m not fucking rich I cant afford to keep replacing stuff when ever I buy new perfume/lotion or anything I usually have to hide it because she’ll use it
not to long ago she used up all of my gel my perfume and lotion and on top of that she’s on my fucking phone 24/7!

It annoys me when ever I wakeup she’s on my phone! all night all day and I don’t want to seem like a bitch and tell her off because she’s my friend but right now in my life I just feel like I’m losing control and have nothing.

It would be nice to at least be able to go out and buy some new perfume I like or hair products without having to worry about her using them WITH OUT MY PERMISSION!

For example last week I was looking around for my ribbons I thought I might have lost them and come to find out she took them and was and still is wearing them and never even fucking told me!

Please give me some advice on how to keep my friends paws off my shit I just feel she’s taking advantage of me because we’re friends

Well roommates can always be a pain. You really don’t want to upset them to the point they are ready to kill you. You never know Haha College does some funny things to you they may just consider It. Haha ok sorry so all joking aside you should sit down and talk with your room mate.

Just ask her nicely and polity to ask before she barrows anything of yours. Now if your like my girlfriend and is willing to treat your self and spend a lot for a really expensive perfume, I’d recommend hiding it anyways.

If you keep having issues with her feel free to bring it up to your councilors and the people at the school. If it gets so bad you can’t bare it you can normally get a new roommate. Now if your renting a apartment or something with her and you can’t get away from her consider getting a locked cabinet or something where you can put the items you REALLY don’t want her to steal and lock it.

I wish you good luck because unless she respects your wishes after you to sit down and talk there is in reality very little you can do before it crosses the “drastic measure” line.