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First Long Distance Relationship, I Need Help!
So I am in my first real long distance relationship. He lives 367 miles from me. And we have been dating for almost two months. he and I are best friends. And I believe I trust him. but I have this feeling there’s something going on. Because for a few days everything will be fine and then, he will get bitchy, not answer texts or phone calls. If he does he stops talking in the middle of a convo. he will get really short with me and ever cuss at me. My friends say he’s “found someone.”
What you think?
Ah long distance relationships, if anyone has read my blog before they know this is sort of my specialty. We’ll if you two are best friends before boyfriend and girlfriend than that’s a very good sign. Means you both respect each other and care for each other out side of the relationship.
The only way to ever know for sure is to sit down and talk to him. Listen to him and go from there. If things sound sketchy wait a while and push the subject again a few days later see if his story changes any, heck if he tells you word for word the same story be a little afraid.
But if things check out just sit down and talk to him explain how you feel about him. Look something’s may seem plain as day to you females but to us guys. I don’t know to put it bluntly we’re as blind as can be.
Also you might want to sit down and sort out the cussing thing if it offends you let him know that. And ask him to please try and work on it, at least while around you.
- John
How old is a pedo? How young can a pedo be?
27 year old going for a 17 year old?
He’s married and has a kid.
We’ve known each other for like 4 months? Friends at first. Then we flirted. Then we cuddled. Now he wants to be FTF (friends that fuck). I said no. He then said FWB (friends with benefits). I said no again. He then apologized and said he didn’t want to lose me and that we can be just friends…and that I was a really good friend and he loved my company. He’s so sweet. He has visited me at work (twice) just to see me for like 10 minutes (round trip being one hour with no traffic).
Normally guys would give up after they can’t bang the chick….happened countless times to me. But why is he still here? Does he genuinely like me?
I honestly just want your open minded opinions on the matter. Forget the father and married thing if you could. I’m not trying to ruin their marriage. I’m just trying to be the “escape” in his life.
Edit: I’d just like to add that’s it’s not illegal. The age of consent is 16 over here. Plus, I’m not even banging him, lmao.
Normally I see you writing the advice so it’s nice to see even you need advice now and than.
To be honest it sounds like your trying to convince yourself that it’s not a big deal to be his as you said “escape”. You want him to fix his marriage so you said, but if he’s cheating driving hours away to just see you how do you expect that to help their marriage?
Guys normally give up on a “chick” if they can’t sleep with her easily but I have meet guys that were smart enough and were willing to wait. So he may be stuck on you and can’t move on, who knows.
From the sounds of things you don’t want to hurt anyone. Yet you don’t want to be just friends with him. You are really contradicting yourself. Best advice I can give you is to put yourself in his wifes shoes. If your husband was cheating (regardless if it’s just kissing it’s cheating.) on you what would you do?
It’s your choice to make but you need to realize that your choice will not only effect yourself, this guy as well as his wife and his son.
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