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I Feel Lonely, no boyfriend
I feel really lonely nowadays since I’ve never had a boyfriend but all my friends seem to be paired up and moving on. The thing is I don’t know any boys so I when people say just go and talk to them its hard because I don’t hang round with any boys so does anyone have any advice for me to get a boyfriend.
First off don’t worry about not having a boyfriend. After all your only 16, while most people do start dating around that age. If you don’t like someone yet don’t rush it. Sadly most relationships end up bad for teenagers. So if your just going to date someone for something to do I’d recommend not doing it at all.
Though if you do want to find a boyfriend who, you think you may really care about you need to go out. Trust me you likely won’t meet him if you stay home all day. Go out to the mall and if you see a guy your interested in start small talk and just make conversation. As it may be hard to do, odds are that a guy won’t just walk away. As a matter of fact doing the small talk builds up confidence, which will help in the future. So best advice? Go out to a place where there are other teenagers around, enjoy yourself; be yourself and if you find a guy your interested in talk to him. Don’t worry about not having a boyfriend, it’s not something you NEED.
I always make the plans, why?
When we are together we hang out and have a good time and everything seems fine. However it’s me that always makes the plans. I’m the one that asks when is his schedule free, I’m the one that tries to figure out when we could spend time with each other. He always lets me know and always spends time with me but he never takes the initiative to plan anything or show me he wants to see me on a certain day. What is going on? Is it attachment issue? He is not that interested? What?
He may be just scared of picking something that you hate. I know my girlfriend and i both hate picking things to do. It’s that we don’t want to see each other it’s just we both hate being responsible. If anything went wrong we don’t want to be blamed. We’ve been together 2 years and we both love each other. The best thing i can recommend is that you sit down and talk to him and make an engagement to him. You pick one week than he picks what you guys do the next. You may have to convince him by giving him some motivation, but ill leave that choice up to you. If he keeps hanging out with you than you can guess he’s interested it’d be pretty obvious if he wasn’t.
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