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How do i lose a girlfriend….?
So I feel kinda like an asshole posting this, but how can I lose my gf? Well basically I just started going out with her recently, and I’m an idiot because as soon as I got into this relationship I realized I really don’t want to be in one at all right now…but obviously I can’t just break up with her because that would really make me look like an ass. I like her, but not nearly as much as she likes me, and to be honest there are other girls I would rather go out with, so I feel like its wrong for me to stay in this relationship. The thing is I’ve already gotten pretty far with her (I fingered her), so that’s another reason I would look like an ass because it would look like I was just using her.
So I don’t know how to get out of this. What complicates thing even more is that she’s friends with my best friend and his girlfriend. So wouldn’t just look like an ass to her, but to them as well. So I really don’t know what to do. Any suggestions?
Well to start off this is a rough place to be in to say the least. I have to pick on you; people need to seriously consider life before you start to date someone. You have to realize that you are no longer just dealing with your life but your girlfriends as well.
So now that I got that out of the way…The best advice I can recommend you is to tell her the truth, tell her exactly what you told us. Explain to you, your friends that you weren’t using her and that you just made an honest mistake.
Also another thing I’d add for other people’s future reference, if you know you don’t like the person enough to stay in a relationships to watch it grow and evolve don’t get sexually active with them. All it will do is make you look terrible and make it a lot harder for you to end things cleanly.
Over all be honest and I am sure you going through this will help others not make the same mistake but hopefully things go over cleanly.
SHES TAKING ADVANTAGE OF ME! HELP!
Ok I have this friend who I’m roommates with and the problem is she uses everything that’s mines and not just borrowing it like using my hair spray then getting her own
she uses it every fucking day her + me using it means that my shit will be gone allot sooner.I’m not fucking rich I cant afford to keep replacing stuff when ever I buy new perfume/lotion or anything I usually have to hide it because she’ll use it
not to long ago she used up all of my gel my perfume and lotion and on top of that she’s on my fucking phone 24/7!It annoys me when ever I wakeup she’s on my phone! all night all day and I don’t want to seem like a bitch and tell her off because she’s my friend but right now in my life I just feel like I’m losing control and have nothing.
It would be nice to at least be able to go out and buy some new perfume I like or hair products without having to worry about her using them WITH OUT MY PERMISSION!
For example last week I was looking around for my ribbons I thought I might have lost them and come to find out she took them and was and still is wearing them and never even fucking told me!
Please give me some advice on how to keep my friends paws off my shit I just feel she’s taking advantage of me because we’re friends
Well roommates can always be a pain. You really don’t want to upset them to the point they are ready to kill you. You never know Haha College does some funny things to you they may just consider It. Haha ok sorry so all joking aside you should sit down and talk with your room mate.
Just ask her nicely and polity to ask before she barrows anything of yours. Now if your like my girlfriend and is willing to treat your self and spend a lot for a really expensive perfume, I’d recommend hiding it anyways.
If you keep having issues with her feel free to bring it up to your councilors and the people at the school. If it gets so bad you can’t bare it you can normally get a new roommate. Now if your renting a apartment or something with her and you can’t get away from her consider getting a locked cabinet or something where you can put the items you REALLY don’t want her to steal and lock it.
I wish you good luck because unless she respects your wishes after you to sit down and talk there is in reality very little you can do before it crosses the “drastic measure” line.
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