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I’ve messed, obvs!
So, pretty much, here’s the dealio. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for eight months. I’m decently happy, but about two months ago my old friend came into the picture. He had moved away last year, without a goodbye, and now he was back. I used to have feelings him, and thoose slowly started coming back after talking for a while. Now i text him almost every minute of every day, and my boyfriend is seeming less interesting every day. I don’t know what to do, because i really like them both, and would never want to hurt either of them. I quite honestly have no idea of what to do. Oh, and did i mention i’ve cheated on my boyfriend with my old friend. Yeah, i’m a horrible person, and have no intention of telling him. But really, i have no idea what to do ! Any helpful citizens willing to help me out with my predicament ?
Thanks soo much, in advance, i’ll try to listen to what you guys say.
Please try to remember, i know it was wrong to cheat, and have no intention of repeating it. Also, i’m only fifteen, so i’m not planning on marrying either of these boys, it’s just, i don’t like hurting people.
Well first off as you said, it’s pretty wrong to cheat. Just shows disrespect to that person, granted i do understand temptations and people do make mistakes. But in reality by not solving the issues you are hurting both of them. No matter what i am pretty sure your going to regretfully have to hurt one of them. From the sounds of things you know who you’d rather be with, your just scared to ruin your 8 month relationship. I know from past history of my self getting to 8 months takes a lot of commitment and effort, and i think it’d be a shame to see that go away for you. But it sounds like you’d be happier with old friend. But best advice i can give you is sit down and write out the things you like of both of them and compare them. And see which one you feel would make you happier.
Granted if you choice to stay with your current boyfriend you need to sit down and tell him the truth he deserves it. Your 15 your still learning sometimes it takes losing the best thing you ever had to learn what you truly want in life.
Good luck, feel free to contact me if you have any more questions
Love Games & Friends 2000 miles away
Okay, so I recently moved , and left all my friends behind ,
and now , my best friend, Laura, who is dating this guy isiah, is in the middle of a love triangle .
there is this other guy jeremy , and he is trying to trap Laura , and trying to make her break it off with isiah and go out with him . but Laura , is confused because she isn`t realizing what jeremy is doing . and isiah is getting really pissed off with both of them .and jeremy broke up with his girlfriend of FOUR years to go out with Laura , KNOWING that she had a boyfriend .
so now my best friend is 2000 miles away , hurt and confused from all this , and I don`t know how to help her .I can only do so much by talkin to her over MSN, and I keep telling her to stay away from jeremy, because the more she talks to him, the more she is feeding the fire. and the more she does that , the more isiah is going to get fed up with it and break it off , which is what jeremy wants .
and to make things worse , Laura told jeremy that he was her back up if her and isiah ever split up, which just put his plan into action .
I don`t really know jeremy`s story , but I know isiah`s and Laura` story , i`d believe them over jeremy ..
but , my questions are ..
how do I help Laura being so far away from her ?
What other advice can I give Laura in this situation?
I understand how difficult this one can be, I as well moved rough 2000 miles away from friends and family and this happened a number of times. Sadly this isn’t exactly your life so you need to proceed very very very carefully.
You really don’t want to damage your friendship with Laura. But that being said if you really don’t trust this guy than you should voice your view(s) about him to her.
I can tell you if he dumped his girlfriend for her there’s likely a lot more to the story than that. You don’t dump a girl you’ve been with that long for a girl who may not even date you. So I am not sure he’s saying the truth when he dumped his girlfriend of 4 years but I could be wrong you never know.
Best way to help Laura is explain things out as clearly and simple as possible. If it’s possible call her and verbally explain it. If you can’t call her use Skype to talk to her over the computer. Something about hearing the words along with reading them helps make it click in people’s heads.
Other than that there’s really not a lot you can do, it’s her life.
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