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How old is a pedo? How young can a pedo be?
27 year old going for a 17 year old?
He’s married and has a kid.
We’ve known each other for like 4 months? Friends at first. Then we flirted. Then we cuddled. Now he wants to be FTF (friends that fuck). I said no. He then said FWB (friends with benefits). I said no again. He then apologized and said he didn’t want to lose me and that we can be just friends…and that I was a really good friend and he loved my company. He’s so sweet. He has visited me at work (twice) just to see me for like 10 minutes (round trip being one hour with no traffic).
Normally guys would give up after they can’t bang the chick….happened countless times to me. But why is he still here? Does he genuinely like me?
I honestly just want your open minded opinions on the matter. Forget the father and married thing if you could. I’m not trying to ruin their marriage. I’m just trying to be the “escape” in his life.
Edit: I’d just like to add that’s it’s not illegal. The age of consent is 16 over here. Plus, I’m not even banging him, lmao.
Normally I see you writing the advice so it’s nice to see even you need advice now and than.
To be honest it sounds like your trying to convince yourself that it’s not a big deal to be his as you said “escape”. You want him to fix his marriage so you said, but if he’s cheating driving hours away to just see you how do you expect that to help their marriage?
Guys normally give up on a “chick” if they can’t sleep with her easily but I have meet guys that were smart enough and were willing to wait. So he may be stuck on you and can’t move on, who knows.
From the sounds of things you don’t want to hurt anyone. Yet you don’t want to be just friends with him. You are really contradicting yourself. Best advice I can give you is to put yourself in his wifes shoes. If your husband was cheating (regardless if it’s just kissing it’s cheating.) on you what would you do?
It’s your choice to make but you need to realize that your choice will not only effect yourself, this guy as well as his wife and his son.
Dad’s Gold Digging Girlfriend… I’ve lost him…
Last December my parents split up, at first I thought this would all go okay because I had known about it for ages, but it’s gone awfully wrong now.
My mum eventually moved out in early Feb, so it ended up I was living in two houses. By this point, my dad had found a new girlfriend, and a few weeks later my mum had a new boyfriend, this wasn’t really a problem, but they’re now both engaged.
That may not sound too bad, but I don’t get on with my dad’s girlfriend at all, she isn’t like my dad at all. He owns a business and is from a wealthy background, whereas she is from the opposite. Since they’ve got together, he’s helped pay for her car, payed for a new wardrobe of clothes for her, redecorated the house to her wishes etc etc.
Her being a gold digger isn’t my only problem, she’s polluted his brain, we used to go to 40 football games a season, now I’m struggling to get him to come to the home games with me. I bought two England fans memberships and since he’s said he won’t go.
In July we were supposed to have a holiday in a small cottage, me my dad, my bro and my dog, we got there, after driving in m car, and came straight back because he didn’t want to be away from her.
Due to my families background, I have Hugo Boss, Calvin Klein clothes etc and she has been non stop slagging me off for this, even know when we’re in our holiday home in Malta she continues to attempt to ruin my life.
I’m not sure how that all sounds, there’s plenty of other things I could have mentioned. But how am I supposed to get on with this woman, when she’s using my dad, taking him away from me, and I’m expected to be best man at their wedding?
Parents splitting up regardless of how “ready” you are for it always seems to hurt and get ugly. I know how it’s annoying it is to be living out of multiple houses. So for that I give you my apologizes I hate how parents tend to forget they aren’t only hurting themselves but they are hurting their children as well.
But the fact that your dads girlfriend is from a different life style doesn’t mean anything. People are people and as much as I hate to tell you money doesn’t make a person any nicer and or caring. You dad from the sounds of things fell in love with her for a reason and it wasn’t for her money. Which in my book is always important, I know from personal experience I like spending money on my girlfriend it makes me happy to get her the things she wants. Your father very well may be doing the same, if your father was able to successfully run a business at the level it sounds like than he is more than capable of handling money wisely.
She may have polluted his mind in your view, but maybe he is happier. From the sounds of things he’s happy with out all the football. The best advice is to sit down and talk with him and explain that you’d like to enjoy a few games with him, he doesn’t have to go to 40 games but 15 – 20 would be nice.
The best advice is talking with him. You need to let him know that you don’t get along with his girlfriend and you’d at the very least would still like your father and son time. The fact your dad misses his girlfriend is a good thing, it shows he cares about her. So just take it in stride your dad also has a life much like you do.
If you really can’t stand your fathers girlfriend so much you are more than welcome from the sounds of things to live with your mother. I know it’s not easy but if she makes him happy you should be happy for him. If talking to him doesn’t help bring up consoling so you can have someone help explain how you feel to him.
If that doesn’t work you need to respect that he is happy with life as it is. Which would really be shame because it sounds like you and your father are very close.
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