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First Long Distance Relationship, I Need Help!
So I am in my first real long distance relationship. He lives 367 miles from me. And we have been dating for almost two months. he and I are best friends. And I believe I trust him. but I have this feeling there’s something going on. Because for a few days everything will be fine and then, he will get bitchy, not answer texts or phone calls. If he does he stops talking in the middle of a convo. he will get really short with me and ever cuss at me. My friends say he’s “found someone.”
What you think?
Ah long distance relationships, if anyone has read my blog before they know this is sort of my specialty. We’ll if you two are best friends before boyfriend and girlfriend than that’s a very good sign. Means you both respect each other and care for each other out side of the relationship.
The only way to ever know for sure is to sit down and talk to him. Listen to him and go from there. If things sound sketchy wait a while and push the subject again a few days later see if his story changes any, heck if he tells you word for word the same story be a little afraid.
But if things check out just sit down and talk to him explain how you feel about him. Look something’s may seem plain as day to you females but to us guys. I don’t know to put it bluntly we’re as blind as can be.
Also you might want to sit down and sort out the cussing thing if it offends you let him know that. And ask him to please try and work on it, at least while around you.
- John
I’ve messed, obvs!
So, pretty much, here’s the dealio. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for eight months. I’m decently happy, but about two months ago my old friend came into the picture. He had moved away last year, without a goodbye, and now he was back. I used to have feelings him, and thoose slowly started coming back after talking for a while. Now i text him almost every minute of every day, and my boyfriend is seeming less interesting every day. I don’t know what to do, because i really like them both, and would never want to hurt either of them. I quite honestly have no idea of what to do. Oh, and did i mention i’ve cheated on my boyfriend with my old friend. Yeah, i’m a horrible person, and have no intention of telling him. But really, i have no idea what to do ! Any helpful citizens willing to help me out with my predicament ?
Thanks soo much, in advance, i’ll try to listen to what you guys say.
Please try to remember, i know it was wrong to cheat, and have no intention of repeating it. Also, i’m only fifteen, so i’m not planning on marrying either of these boys, it’s just, i don’t like hurting people.
Well first off as you said, it’s pretty wrong to cheat. Just shows disrespect to that person, granted i do understand temptations and people do make mistakes. But in reality by not solving the issues you are hurting both of them. No matter what i am pretty sure your going to regretfully have to hurt one of them. From the sounds of things you know who you’d rather be with, your just scared to ruin your 8 month relationship. I know from past history of my self getting to 8 months takes a lot of commitment and effort, and i think it’d be a shame to see that go away for you. But it sounds like you’d be happier with old friend. But best advice i can give you is sit down and write out the things you like of both of them and compare them. And see which one you feel would make you happier.
Granted if you choice to stay with your current boyfriend you need to sit down and tell him the truth he deserves it. Your 15 your still learning sometimes it takes losing the best thing you ever had to learn what you truly want in life.
Good luck, feel free to contact me if you have any more questions
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