07
January

Amy, How to catch his eye?

I really like this guy. He really doesn’t notice me. How should I catch his eye? Is there any way to make him like me? How should I learn what he likes and looks for in girls?

Well Amy, your the first one to use the contact us form so thanks, nice to see that works as planned. I haven’t started posting recently as I was wrapping up my own school work so I am sorry to the readers. You should start to see a new advice piece daily starting this week.

Now back to you minor problem Amy. If you really like the guy the best advice I can give is be yourself. If you try to fit into what he likes and enjoys your not being true to yourself and as such he may see you as a poser or something worst. I say it time and time again the best way to catch his eye is finding a way to sit down and just talk to him.

Do you share any classes,or after school activities? You don’t want to rush up to a guy and say “Hey I like you, wanna date?” especially if you two haven’t talked much before. So start of slowly just a few minor conversations that build up day by day or even every other day. If you want to see a successful relationship develop you need to give time for a friendship to build.

A great way to do this is after talking every now and then is to invite him to a group “date” but claim it mores as a bunch of friends hanging out and going to the movies or something. The absolute worst thing that can happen is he says no, it’s always worth knowing for sure than asking what if.

So all in all, be yourself. Find times where to start some minor chitchat about things like school, sports if you follow them, just anything relevant to that day and time. Follow up those conversations with an invitation to a group date or coffee.

06
August

Help Please, Exboyfriend dumped me for no reason

I really like this guy, and we’ve been friends since like 5th grade. we went out for like a month, but he broke up with me for no apparent reason. i still like him a lot, and i think he still likes me a lot. but like when we were going out, we are both kinda shy so we don’t talk much in person, but talk a lot on aim. and he told me he loved me, but on aim… and doesn’t really seem like he did in person. so idk… help?

First off your only in 7th or 8th grade going by your age, so don’t worry about dating so much. Trust me, i used to think it was something that was important but the truth is, it really wasn’t. If you are wondering why he broke up with you, the best advice i can give you is to go talk to him. He’s the only person in the world who knows, and the sooner you sit down and ask him what was the reason the sooner you can attempt to fix whatever was the said “problem”.

About being shy, you can’t be afraid of being yourself and having fun. If he’s going to date you he’s going to do it because he likes you. So if your scared to mess up or say something wrong than you shouldn’t be dating him. So if you wanna date him just relax he wanted to date you for a reason and it was for being yourself.