Amy, How to catch his eye?

I really like this guy. He really doesn’t notice me. How should I catch his eye? Is there any way to make him like me? How should I learn what he likes and looks for in girls?

Well Amy, your the first one to use the contact us form so thanks, nice to see that works as planned. I haven’t started posting recently as I was wrapping up my own school work so I am sorry to the readers. You should start to see a new advice piece daily starting this week.

Now back to you minor problem Amy. If you really like the guy the best advice I can give is be yourself. If you try to fit into what he likes and enjoys your not being true to yourself and as such he may see you as a poser or something worst. I say it time and time again the best way to catch his eye is finding a way to sit down and just talk to him.

Do you share any classes,or after school activities? You don’t want to rush up to a guy and say “Hey I like you, wanna date?” especially if you two haven’t talked much before. So start of slowly just a few minor conversations that build up day by day or even every other day. If you want to see a successful relationship develop you need to give time for a friendship to build.

A great way to do this is after talking every now and then is to invite him to a group “date” but claim it mores as a bunch of friends hanging out and going to the movies or something. The absolute worst thing that can happen is he says no, it’s always worth knowing for sure than asking what if.

So all in all, be yourself. Find times where to start some minor chitchat about things like school, sports if you follow them, just anything relevant to that day and time. Follow up those conversations with an invitation to a group date or coffee.